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Monday, August 17, 2009
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Comments: mera naam nirmal trivedi hai.date05/may/2009 ko mere sasural walo ne muj par 498a ka case kar diya lag-hag 3 sal se unhone meri biwi ko unke gar par hi rakha he.me mumbai me hu yaha computer marketing ka kam karta hu.meri biwi hai 25 year lekin dimag 12 ki ladaki jitana hai.mere sasur use mere sath is liye nahi rakha ta hai ki me kahi uska medical karwa ke pagal goshit karke talak le lunga.mene kaha ki esa kuchh nahi karunga meri kismat me jo tha wo hua aap bhejo. lekin usne kaha ki tum bombay chhod do or goan me GAR JAMAI bankar raho me yaha kam dilaunga.mene mana kiya to case kiya our police ko paise dekar mere sabhi garwalo ipc307dhara lagwai ki hamne jalake marne ki koshish jab ki F.I.R me likhwaya he ki 5year se meri beti ko leke nahi jata he.police ne 1.5lakh ruye liye our 307 dhara lagai jiski wajah se mere mammi-papa 10 deen our me 45 deen jail me raha.hame police walo ne hi bola ki usne jamanat nahi hone dene ke liye jila court tak judge ko paise diye.police to uske hath ki kathhputali he. wo L.I.C.me d.o he paisa bahut kamata he.uska chacha tahsil me munschi tha to pehchan bhi batut he S.D.M,CITY MAJISTRED sab se uski pechan bhi he local M.L.A ka bhi dar dikha raha he mere perents 80/85years he meri sisters ki sha di hue 20/25 hogaye he feer bhi sab ko fasaya he.hamara jeena haram kar diya he ab bolta he ki tum log chhut gaye ho to tumhare gar me aag laga dunga .or case me jail bhijwaunga police itna paisa kha chuki he ki kuchh bhi kar saki he ham kya kare.wo kehta he ki me tumko saja karwa ke hi rahunga chahe high-court ke judge ko kharidana pade.chahe 25lakh bhi dene pade me tumko chodunga nahi.aap soch sakte hai ki bager kuchha kiye 307 lagwakar 45 days jamanat nahi hone di to wo kitna takatwar he our gawo me police/adalato ki halat aap bhi jante hi honge.ab muje kya karna meri halat bahut buri hai aatm-hatya karne ko ji chahta hai magar mere ma-bap budhe he me kya karu,please meri madad kijiye warna waha ki adalate sabut bhi nahi dekhati.me jail me tha tab maine dekha waha 20se25 bekasur ladke 498a me band hai.akhir kab tak.KYA MUJE INSAF MILEGA
Comments: My wife is not became a mother because she have no Ovaries of both side, She have listining problem also and Small sie Uterus, UTERUS is measuring approx.4.3x1.7x2.3cm in size. So i want to take Divorse. From my sing one case runing in Family court aginst my Wife and the first Date in 22/08/2009. Against me, my wife's family Rajistred the FIR in of 498a, 323,509 IPC and Section 3/4 Dowry Pribhistion. So we are very afried for this case.
Then plz. Give me Advise What can i do in against case.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Comments: We were staying in joint family after marraige on 17-11-2002 my wife left home twice (In one year) and came back and when she went to her parent's house for delivery of baby on 21-02-2004 she did'nt returned back pressuring me to stay seperate with here, finally b'coz of child i accepted to stay seperate and she came on 14-08-2007 and always use to quarrel with me unneccesary and broke my brothers engagement by telling negative things to my brothers inlaws about my family and had quarrel with me again left house on 15-11-2008 with her mother & Till date she is over there. I tried evrything from my side even staying seperate from my family but still she always follow her mother,brother & sister and harrass me and my family.
I'm feedup with this and does'nt want to continue relation with her nor want to give her any maintanance as I tried my best to keep relation good.
Can I marry without divorcing her, has already earlier also she was with her family for more then 3-1/2 years and again now almost a year.
Please let me know the best way to get out of this with giving any maintanace to her and re-settle my life with new partner
Comments: WE GOT MARRIED ON 18/04/08. WE HAVE NOT TAKEN A SINGLE ITEM IN DOWRY(NO SHAGUN/ NOCASH/NOGIFTS)WHICH CAN BE DOCUMENTED IN THE VIDEO. IN HONNYMOON TRIP SHE STARTED MAKING DEMANDS AND ENQUIRING ABOUT MY FAMILYS WEALTH , WHICH I REFUSED TO DIVULDE.MY WIFE FROM THE DAY ONE DID NOT WANT TO HAVE PHYSICAL RELATION WITH ME. I THOUGHT MAY BE THERE IS SOME ADJUSTMENT PROBLEM BECAUSE WE HAD SHORT TIME OF ENGAGEMENT TIME BEFORE MARRIGE.SHE STAYED 18/04/2008 TO08/10/2008. AS MEMBERS OF FAMILY KNEW THAT THERE WAS NO SEXUALCONTACT WITH ME,UNDER THE PRESURE SHE MADE.IN THE MEANTINE SHE HAD DIVULGED TO ME THAT SHE HAVE HAD PHYSICAL RELATION WITH ONE OF HER RELATIVE IN THE PASTS AND STILL WANTS TO CONTINUE WITH IT. I TOLD HER TO FORGET ABOUT HER PAST AND LIVE A NEW LIFE BUT IT FELL TO HER DEAF EAR.SHE TOLD ME THAT I HAD ONLY MARRIED TO U UNDER PRESSURE AND MONEY .AS U KNOW THAT I HAVE A RELATION I DONT WANT TO HAVE FAST (KARVACHAUTH WARTH) IN YOUR NAME AS I HAD BEEN 4 THE LAST3-4 YEARS KEEPING THE FAST IN HIS NAME.AS WE GOT THE CONFORMATION OF HER PREGNANCY SHE STARTED CREATING MORE TROUBLE.THE SAME DAY SHE TOLD ME THAT I DONT WANT TO CONTINUE WITH THIS PREGNANCY.SHE ALSO TOLD MY ELDER BROTHERS WIFE THAT I HAVE TOLD MY RELATIVES THAT MY IN LAWS ARE MISBEHAVING WITH ME AND THEY WILL COME AND THRASH THEM ALL.AND ON 8/10/08 THIS HAPPENED ,ALL OF A SUDDEN IN THE MORNING AFTER HAVING BATH WIHOUT TELLING ELDERS AND ME SHE WENT AWAY TO HER PARENTS HOUSE TAKING WITH HER ALL THE STRIDHAN(CASH(SHAGUN)GOLD THAT WE HAD GIVEN/GOLD THAT SHE HAD BROUGHT AND HER CLOTHS). IN THE EVENING HER RELATIVES HAD COME TO OUR SHOP TO THRASH US.BUT AFTER HEARING THE TRUTH THEY REALISED THAT THEIR KIN IS ON THE WRONG SIDE.THEY SCOLDED HER AND TOLD NOT TO MISGUIDE IN THE FUTURE.WE HAD INFORMED THAY SHE HAD TAKEN ALL THE VALUEABLE WITH HER.HER RELATIVES ASSURED US THAT THE WILL RETURN THAT IN THE MORNING WHICH NEVER HAPPENED .A DAY AFTER THAT HER MOTHER CAME AND TOOK MY WIFE SAYING THAT AS SHE IS PREGNANT & AND BEEN SCOLDED 4 THE MISTAKE SHE HAD MADE, I WILL TAKE CARE FOR 2-3 DAYS AND SEND BACK TO U.4M 8/10/08 TILL 16/12/08 MY FATHER HIMSELF AND THROUGH RELATIVES HAD GONE 5 TIMES TO BRING MY WIFE BACK BUT SHE HAD NOT COME.ON 16/12/08 WE CAME TO KNOW THAT SHE HAD ABORTED THE CHILD. ON 23/12/08 SHE HAD FILLED A POLICE COMPLAINT ON DOWRY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT. THE INQUIRY COULD NOT BE COMPLETED AS THERE WERE ELECTION IN THE STATE , THE SEAT OF INQUIRY OFFICER FELT VACANT. IN THE END WE ARE NO WHERE TILL DATE. PLEASE GIVE US PROPER ADVICE WHAT ACTION TO TAKE FURTHER.
Friday, July 24, 2009
Comments: in future i will be victim of this case, because my wife and her family trying to ruined me and my family. they are planning to get job in talaksuda quota or widow quota, because she has tryied three times to get job through rpsc ajmer in third grade teacher recruitment. she is not want live with me more than one year as she challenged me last night. but want to live with her because of my two childred one is 7 yr and one is nine months. please help me to stop her to such plan.
she has three brothers of my age one of them criminal background and one is historyseeter, so that i am also worried about my life. please save me.
Comments: I am also a victim of false cases in Allahabad and complaint put up to Police. But till date police did not do any action as they could not find any guilt at first instance. We all presented ourselves to police for arrest as they called up. It is a misuse of lawa against us and trying to blackmail me n my family as my parents are alone in town and I am working in Delhi. Lady has an affair n did marriage in pressure with false records.
What can be my precautionary steps to save my family first and later myself. I have a three months old sweet daughter too but not have access to her due to this law.
Will the lady like this will be a good mother n let her learn good manners.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Comments: Harrassed over dowry, my sister (Narmada) stayed home. Sometime later they grabbed her elder son (7) and took away forcefully. We registered a case under 498A but they got bail from High court of Andhra Pradesh alleging that she had extra marital affairs and some more. The case is running but we can't afford to pay Lawyer's ransom. All that we want is my sister's son back. Please please suggest whether she can get him back.
We are also about file a case with the National Human rights commission, Andra pradesh. Please help me.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Comments: My case is very peculiar in nature. my wife is very vindictive in nature and tends to take revenge on any body who does not go with her wishes, even her parents.She wants me to be her slave and blackmailing me and my parents for four years against 498a if i do not do whatever she likes.some times she behaves like a insane person.She abuses me physically very badly.i have marks every were in my body.i recieve all this to save my parents from 498a as she creats nuisence in my home.she trid to kill me also.In front of the cops she tells them that iam not earning and do not give him food and shelter but in fact every time i get a employment or business she completey destroyed them.she believes that if i get money then i may take action against her.My position is pathetic.Police advises me to run away.she is barbaroues and ruthless maniac.please save me , before i die.
Comments: She lives at parent house 5 days in aweek. Never lived at martial house continously for more than 7 days. whenever she likes, she goes and whenever she likes she come. if stopped she starts quarrel and definitely go with threats for filing a false 498a case.
Monday, July 20, 2009
I desperately need help for my sisterâ™s case, please help me. Let me know if anybody can help us in Kolkata. I need this help desperately, please help my sister.
We are not finacially sound to fight agaisnt the cruelty done by her inlaws. And the advantage of which is being taken by her inlaws who are now framing different opinions about her and are now trying to ruin her life in all possible manners they can.
They have severely tortured my sister and brutely damaged her mental peace immediately after her marriage for dowry. Now she is living with her widow mother. We have even lodged an F.I.R. against her inlaws, but all was in vain as they are quite resourseful to take advange of their money power to weaken the case by adopting various means of bribing the police. Even after lodging an F.I.R. agaisnt the cruelty of her inlaws police didn't took any action for 3 months of which her inlaws took advange and was granted a bail by the court.
Can explain in details to the person if you have any organization to help her out in Kolkata. Please help her, I beg, as we have lost all hopes. Pls call me immediately on my mob# 9831536037 for help, as she is in a very bad mental shape now. I am scared that she might commit something worst if no relief is sorted out for her.
Thanks & Regards
Comments: over interference of my wife's family and misguidance from them, resulted in frequent quarrels.
My wife gets short tempered under these situation and threatens to leave home. Initially i tried to stop her but later i let her follow her own wits.
Once while living away from me with her friend ( girl) she consumed some pills. Fortunately i suspected something wrong when my calls were unanswered..I called 108 and had her hospitalized. She was relieved in 2 hours after a stomach wash.
She is now living away from me for 4 months and working in Delhi.
Her step brother has send my father and me vulger sms's.
Her step father has filed a dowry ( 30 lakhs) and DV case against me and my whole family but the case got transferred to women cell. we have to go there and give our statements...
We are preparing all the possible documents, like our last one year bank statements, 108 report etc etc.. to show that their complaint is all fabricated...
I am so disappointed that even police is not investigating the genuineness of their case and asking us to ignore the vulgar sms's...did i marry to get insulted. dont i deserve to live respectfully and save the honour of my family..i cant do it..just because..i got married.. ??
All i seek is a fair investigation on this case and let the financial condition of my in-laws be checked...if they can spend this kind of money..if found 100 % guilty..i let the law of land..decide.what do they want to do..to the people who are disgracing the law .
If such people are left to their devices the real victims will also be looked down upon with suspicion.
please advice us how can we make sure that we are not framed even after all our efforts...
I am under constant mental trauma over the bad health of my mom due to all this problems...
Comments: my in laws interfering in my life. my wife usually go to her home and remain there for two two months. she want to overpower me. she had tried twice for suicide. now she is preganant, and went to her house, and now she is threatening of section 498 and domestic violence. she is having ex marital affair.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Comments: My wife has filed a case under sec.498A & 3/4 IPC against me, my mother, my brother in law and my elder sister(Married) since last 16 years ago. Prior to her filing of the above case I had filed a Matrimonial suit against her, for her return back to home as because she is staying at her father house since last more than one year. In my filed case hearing have also started but she didnot attended in any date. Anticipatory Bail for my brother in law and sister has been filed but District Judge will grant after seeing the chargesheet ot the case report from the police station. In this case what are the scope and ways for geeting relief and anticipatory bail etc. Please advise.
Friday, July 17, 2009
Comments: We are 4 in family. I got married by www.Sikhmilan.com matrimony site. Todays situation is that my wife is not willing to live with my family. She can take any action against me. She is with her parents (my in-laws). how can i and my family get protected from any mis-happening?
please help me and my family.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Comments: My wife does not listen to me & tortures my old parents & use abusive language. she also gets physically violant with my mother who is 60 yrs ols. i belong to well off family & has two kids. My wife is not ready to come to any compromising terms thogh n no of times we had sitting with her relatives also. She threaten my parents that she will get them behind bars in dowry case.
Kindly suggest what to do?
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Comments: Interreligious marriage after long distance internet chatting followed by love affair.Girl was used to spasmoproxyvon addiction before marriage, a fact not revealed.Also she had number of other boy friends.Marriage was a hell from almost first day.Husband's parents stopped talking to them once the addiction etc came to light.She also has family history of MDP (mother's side).Being a paranoid, and of heavy build(over 100kg),she would often beat the husband.But no MLC filed. Her mother also degenerated the relationship.Mother flew in from Delhi and,same day, she complained to Women's cell on 30th March 2009.Then decided to move out so started looking for a house thereafter, without any of these facts made known to husband.On 4-4-2009, she packed up all her belongings and left the house, with her mother in tow.
Comments: I am from Pune and wife is from Vadodara. Got married in Feb 2006. No dowry demands. Infact I gave a lot to my wife. Had marital problems - wife was always quarelling and father-in-law was always interfering in our married life. I tried everthing to keep wife happy. Wife was working as a permanant lecturer. Wife is well qualified (M.Tech). In March 2007, at the behest of father-in-law, wife left the house. We underwnt professional counselling but didn't help. Wife and Father-in-law continued to harras us by sending false documents, e-mails to relatives, friends, neighbors and office. Finally after unable to suffer further harrasment, I filed for divorce in July 2007 in Pune. Wife continued to stay and work in Pune. Wife got this case transferred to Vadodara in April 2008. Wife gaveup her job and went to Vadodara. She filed for maintenance of fifty thousand per month and one lakh legal fees. In April 2009, wife filed a false 498a case. Police came to arrest us from Vadodara on 4 July 2009. We took transit bail. We went to Vadodara a took regular bail on 8 July 2009.