Name: Atamjeet Singh Bhatia
Comments: We are 4 in family. I got married by www.Sikhmilan.com matrimony site. Todays situation is that my wife is not willing to live with my family. She can take any action against me. She is with her parents (my in-laws). how can i and my family get protected from any mis-happening?
please help me and my family.
Friday, July 17, 2009
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Deepak Arya - Ambala City
Name: Deepak Arya
Comments: My wife does not listen to me & tortures my old parents & use abusive language. she also gets physically violant with my mother who is 60 yrs ols. i belong to well off family & has two kids. My wife is not ready to come to any compromising terms thogh n no of times we had sitting with her relatives also. She threaten my parents that she will get them behind bars in dowry case.
Comments: My wife does not listen to me & tortures my old parents & use abusive language. she also gets physically violant with my mother who is 60 yrs ols. i belong to well off family & has two kids. My wife is not ready to come to any compromising terms thogh n no of times we had sitting with her relatives also. She threaten my parents that she will get them behind bars in dowry case.
Kindly suggest what to do?
Anurag - Agra
Name: Anurag
Comments: Married in March 2008. Wife stayed with me for 6 months and left exactly after 6 months in October before Karvachauth. Promised to return for Karwachauth in 3-4 days. She didn't return, nor did there parents call back to inform of change of plans. When we called them they threatened us with false charges and allegations. Finally during the election period (Achar Sanhita), they took advantage of the opportunity and filed 498a, 406 and other IPCs.
Comments: Married in March 2008. Wife stayed with me for 6 months and left exactly after 6 months in October before Karvachauth. Promised to return for Karwachauth in 3-4 days. She didn't return, nor did there parents call back to inform of change of plans. When we called them they threatened us with false charges and allegations. Finally during the election period (Achar Sanhita), they took advantage of the opportunity and filed 498a, 406 and other IPCs.
My marriage took place in Agra. She stayed with me in my apartment in Noida away from my parents. The jurisdiction if any for the allegations should be in Uttar Pradesh. Still the police and the judiciary have taken cognizance of the allegations and taking action against us. My wife has mentioned 8 names in her FIR including my pet dog. My father in law is a very notorious person in his hometown.
We got stay from High Court. They appealed against it and got the stay removed from Jaipur High Court. They have also probably filed for maintenance under DV and 125. Please advise what we can do next as my family and my liberty and life is at stake here.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
sukhbir anand - delhi
Name: sukhbir anand
Comments: Interreligious marriage after long distance internet chatting followed by love affair.Girl was used to spasmoproxyvon addiction before marriage, a fact not revealed.Also she had number of other boy friends.Marriage was a hell from almost first day.Husband's parents stopped talking to them once the addiction etc came to light.She also has family history of MDP (mother's side).Being a paranoid, and of heavy build(over 100kg),she would often beat the husband.But no MLC filed. Her mother also degenerated the relationship.Mother flew in from Delhi and,same day, she complained to Women's cell on 30th March 2009.Then decided to move out so started looking for a house thereafter, without any of these facts made known to husband.On 4-4-2009, she packed up all her belongings and left the house, with her mother in tow.
Comments: Interreligious marriage after long distance internet chatting followed by love affair.Girl was used to spasmoproxyvon addiction before marriage, a fact not revealed.Also she had number of other boy friends.Marriage was a hell from almost first day.Husband's parents stopped talking to them once the addiction etc came to light.She also has family history of MDP (mother's side).Being a paranoid, and of heavy build(over 100kg),she would often beat the husband.But no MLC filed. Her mother also degenerated the relationship.Mother flew in from Delhi and,same day, she complained to Women's cell on 30th March 2009.Then decided to move out so started looking for a house thereafter, without any of these facts made known to husband.On 4-4-2009, she packed up all her belongings and left the house, with her mother in tow.
Rahul Kulkarni - Pune, Maharashtra
Name: Rahul Kulkarni
Comments: I am from Pune and wife is from Vadodara. Got married in Feb 2006. No dowry demands. Infact I gave a lot to my wife. Had marital problems - wife was always quarelling and father-in-law was always interfering in our married life. I tried everthing to keep wife happy. Wife was working as a permanant lecturer. Wife is well qualified (M.Tech). In March 2007, at the behest of father-in-law, wife left the house. We underwnt professional counselling but didn't help. Wife and Father-in-law continued to harras us by sending false documents, e-mails to relatives, friends, neighbors and office. Finally after unable to suffer further harrasment, I filed for divorce in July 2007 in Pune. Wife continued to stay and work in Pune. Wife got this case transferred to Vadodara in April 2008. Wife gaveup her job and went to Vadodara. She filed for maintenance of fifty thousand per month and one lakh legal fees. In April 2009, wife filed a false 498a case. Police came to arrest us from Vadodara on 4 July 2009. We took transit bail. We went to Vadodara a took regular bail on 8 July 2009.
Comments: I am from Pune and wife is from Vadodara. Got married in Feb 2006. No dowry demands. Infact I gave a lot to my wife. Had marital problems - wife was always quarelling and father-in-law was always interfering in our married life. I tried everthing to keep wife happy. Wife was working as a permanant lecturer. Wife is well qualified (M.Tech). In March 2007, at the behest of father-in-law, wife left the house. We underwnt professional counselling but didn't help. Wife and Father-in-law continued to harras us by sending false documents, e-mails to relatives, friends, neighbors and office. Finally after unable to suffer further harrasment, I filed for divorce in July 2007 in Pune. Wife continued to stay and work in Pune. Wife got this case transferred to Vadodara in April 2008. Wife gaveup her job and went to Vadodara. She filed for maintenance of fifty thousand per month and one lakh legal fees. In April 2009, wife filed a false 498a case. Police came to arrest us from Vadodara on 4 July 2009. We took transit bail. We went to Vadodara a took regular bail on 8 July 2009.
himanshu - lucknow
Name: himanshu
Comments: my wife has no interest in my faimly she has a lot of desires incrl hadluding sex also i have a past before iwasinvolved in love with a girl this love was only onesided girl did not any thing about it this event had passed 3 year before my marriage but any body who was related to my faimly has told it to my wife and she became to use it like a wepon on 31 aug 2008 her father came and he abused me and my moyher and threat me that he could killed me or they will arresred me in dowery act there was no case charged by them till now but some reliable sources they cando after some times
Comments: my wife has no interest in my faimly she has a lot of desires incrl hadluding sex also i have a past before iwasinvolved in love with a girl this love was only onesided girl did not any thing about it this event had passed 3 year before my marriage but any body who was related to my faimly has told it to my wife and she became to use it like a wepon on 31 aug 2008 her father came and he abused me and my moyher and threat me that he could killed me or they will arresred me in dowery act there was no case charged by them till now but some reliable sources they cando after some times
Monday, July 13, 2009
siva - andhrapradesh
Name: siva
Comments: sir please help me mail me or call me , or give your contact numbers i will explain all the matter , her father is a police officer , DSP .
Comments: sir please help me mail me or call me , or give your contact numbers i will explain all the matter , her father is a police officer , DSP .
Sunday, July 12, 2009
praveena - visakhapatnam / andhra pradesh
Name: praveena
Comments: marriage performed in visakhapatnam ., husband works and lives in hyderabad., due to tremendous ill treament physically and mentally i have filed a 498a case in visakhapatnam ... after registering the case here the local police say that the case needed to be filed in hyderabad --place of harrasment .. and have not yet arrested the accused . is that proper.and are delying the issue. On the day of lodging the complaint they (police ) were all so eager to go to hyd and arrest the accused but i do not know how the minds changed after about 2days and they say all cock and bull stories and are keeping the case pending . pl suggest the needful thank you sir
Comments: marriage performed in visakhapatnam ., husband works and lives in hyderabad., due to tremendous ill treament physically and mentally i have filed a 498a case in visakhapatnam ... after registering the case here the local police say that the case needed to be filed in hyderabad --place of harrasment .. and have not yet arrested the accused . is that proper.and are delying the issue. On the day of lodging the complaint they (police ) were all so eager to go to hyd and arrest the accused but i do not know how the minds changed after about 2days and they say all cock and bull stories and are keeping the case pending . pl suggest the needful thank you sir
Saturday, July 11, 2009
ashokhm - Karnataka
Name: ashokhm
Comments: I have applied for divorce and a PCR is filed against her and her mother for cheating. She came to know about this and started threatning about commiting suicide, killing my entire family.
later she forcibly entered the house in my absence and later threatened again to kill my family.
She tried to commit suicide and later she was admitted to hospital. afer discharge she was in her mother's home and we left the town for somedays. In the meanwhile she filed dowry case against our entire family and as of now we are waiting for Anticipatory bail.
Pls let me know can i apply for quashing the 498a case in High court
Comments: I have applied for divorce and a PCR is filed against her and her mother for cheating. She came to know about this and started threatning about commiting suicide, killing my entire family.
later she forcibly entered the house in my absence and later threatened again to kill my family.
She tried to commit suicide and later she was admitted to hospital. afer discharge she was in her mother's home and we left the town for somedays. In the meanwhile she filed dowry case against our entire family and as of now we are waiting for Anticipatory bail.
Pls let me know can i apply for quashing the 498a case in High court
Friday, July 10, 2009
SOUMEN - Agartala
Name: SOUMEN
Comments: Hi
My elder brother's wife filed a dowry case against him and my parents but later she have withdrawn the case and the court have given a clean chit to all. My brother though was in jail for 1 month. Now my brother's wife doesnt want to stay with him. In papers my brother have shown a monthly income of 2000 rupees for which the family court have asked him to pay 1200 rupees per month. They have a 2 year old kid for which the lady have the custody. But the same court after 6 months have asked him to pay 2000 rupees per month on 09 july 2009. Whats the justification when his salary has not increased at all.
Comments: Hi
My elder brother's wife filed a dowry case against him and my parents but later she have withdrawn the case and the court have given a clean chit to all. My brother though was in jail for 1 month. Now my brother's wife doesnt want to stay with him. In papers my brother have shown a monthly income of 2000 rupees for which the family court have asked him to pay 1200 rupees per month. They have a 2 year old kid for which the lady have the custody. But the same court after 6 months have asked him to pay 2000 rupees per month on 09 july 2009. Whats the justification when his salary has not increased at all.
My questions are
1. Can we challenge the courts decision and appeal in session court?
2. How much exactly my brother need to pay monthly to his wife considering his salary?
3. They are staying seperately for more than 1 year. Can my brother ask for a divorce?
Waitng for your advice.
Arun Dash - Mumbai
Name: Arun Dash
Comments: wife with the help of her parents threatning us to file a 498A case within few days after the marriage. Finally filed a false and fabricated complaint.
Comments: wife with the help of her parents threatning us to file a 498A case within few days after the marriage. Finally filed a false and fabricated complaint.
madhup bhutani - new delhi
Name: madhup bhutani
Comments: Hi, I got married on october 2004 and have one son born in dec 2005 who is dearly loved by both me and my estranged wife.Our problems have been based solely on the fact that i havent done well in life and havent been able to provide my wife with the luxuries she has always craved.She is M.A. in english but refuses to do a job and with all qualifications jsut does a freelance job from which sghe earns about 6000 a mth,recently she has left that also saying that she will file case and extort more money from me as she is not working.She ahs ruined my life and is hell bent on ruining my sons life....please could someone on this forum help me out from my predicament.
Comments: Hi, I got married on october 2004 and have one son born in dec 2005 who is dearly loved by both me and my estranged wife.Our problems have been based solely on the fact that i havent done well in life and havent been able to provide my wife with the luxuries she has always craved.She is M.A. in english but refuses to do a job and with all qualifications jsut does a freelance job from which sghe earns about 6000 a mth,recently she has left that also saying that she will file case and extort more money from me as she is not working.She ahs ruined my life and is hell bent on ruining my sons life....please could someone on this forum help me out from my predicament.
raman dandona - delhi
Name: raman dandona
Comments: since marriage having problems. wife was living alone on the first floor since last 6 years in my parents house and I was living on the ground floor with my parents and widowed sister. due to circumstances ( loss in business ) has to sold the house and shift in another house where have to live together with parents. But only in one week of shifting wife has started creating problems. parents are sick and old. I am unable to understand what to do. I am jobless for last 3 months, but will do some business with the help of my father.
Comments: since marriage having problems. wife was living alone on the first floor since last 6 years in my parents house and I was living on the ground floor with my parents and widowed sister. due to circumstances ( loss in business ) has to sold the house and shift in another house where have to live together with parents. But only in one week of shifting wife has started creating problems. parents are sick and old. I am unable to understand what to do. I am jobless for last 3 months, but will do some business with the help of my father.
Thursday, July 09, 2009
shravan kumar - bangalore
Name: shravan kumar
Comments: My wife wanted me to stay separetly as my in- laws wanted when i did not agree to this she filed a 498a case on us. she has taken all her stuff including jewellery and now she is telling that we have taken it and not given them back. She has also stated that me and my parents have demanded a flat and costy jewels and sarrees for marriage and after marriage me and my parents used to harrass her to get the flat. and i used to harrass for her salary and used to mentally and physically harrass her she is told in her complaint, which is full of lies. please help
Comments: My wife wanted me to stay separetly as my in- laws wanted when i did not agree to this she filed a 498a case on us. she has taken all her stuff including jewellery and now she is telling that we have taken it and not given them back. She has also stated that me and my parents have demanded a flat and costy jewels and sarrees for marriage and after marriage me and my parents used to harrass her to get the flat. and i used to harrass for her salary and used to mentally and physically harrass her she is told in her complaint, which is full of lies. please help
Wednesday, July 08, 2009
sanjay mishra - navi mumbai
Name: sanjay mishra
Comments: My name is sanjay Mishra.AGE 30 .Sole bread earner for a family of 6 people.My wife comes from a rich and influential family.
After the marriage there haS been lot of intervention form my wifes relatives who stay in Mumbai.they use to regularly call me and check why i have not taken outher for dinner/movie or any other thing.In a year of recession and job loss it was strict no no for me as i had to cut my expenses and balance my earnings.My brother and sister lost there jobs last yr during recession.hence the whole onus of family was on me.During the month of Aug 2008 i fell severly ill due toJaundice and was adviced 3 months of rest.I was on leave for 3 months till October 008. In a period where i needed the most my wife left me and went to her native place in UP.She returned back only in month of March.She said she wanted to stay in seperate house which i refused .There has been lot of mudslinging by there family in the meanwhile.She and her relatives abused regularly my family and me .Again in the month of March she went to her native place in the pretext of somebodys marraige.I said since there is no communication and no love lets take divorce .The extent here is that we never had any physical relationship in the last 1 yr from the date of marraige.
In the month of April his uncle threateed me with dire consequences for which i filed a NC ON 27TH aPRIL 09.she has been at her native place in the month of April,May and came back in JUne with 2 Poice officers aCCOMPANYING HER.When i asked th police officer why they have come ,they said it was routine.without any complant they use to regularly visit my house and call evrybody.There was lt of police harassment.On 8th June i filed for divorce in Thane sessions court.After telling her that i had taken this step she just started to threaten us with dire consequences and finally on 1st july 2009 she did an FIR.I am out on AB and my next hearing is on 16th July 09.They have complained against evry member of my family.wht to do???The police is totally on there side as they are rich and powerfull.
Comments: My name is sanjay Mishra.AGE 30 .Sole bread earner for a family of 6 people.My wife comes from a rich and influential family.
After the marriage there haS been lot of intervention form my wifes relatives who stay in Mumbai.they use to regularly call me and check why i have not taken outher for dinner/movie or any other thing.In a year of recession and job loss it was strict no no for me as i had to cut my expenses and balance my earnings.My brother and sister lost there jobs last yr during recession.hence the whole onus of family was on me.During the month of Aug 2008 i fell severly ill due toJaundice and was adviced 3 months of rest.I was on leave for 3 months till October 008. In a period where i needed the most my wife left me and went to her native place in UP.She returned back only in month of March.She said she wanted to stay in seperate house which i refused .There has been lot of mudslinging by there family in the meanwhile.She and her relatives abused regularly my family and me .Again in the month of March she went to her native place in the pretext of somebodys marraige.I said since there is no communication and no love lets take divorce .The extent here is that we never had any physical relationship in the last 1 yr from the date of marraige.
In the month of April his uncle threateed me with dire consequences for which i filed a NC ON 27TH aPRIL 09.she has been at her native place in the month of April,May and came back in JUne with 2 Poice officers aCCOMPANYING HER.When i asked th police officer why they have come ,they said it was routine.without any complant they use to regularly visit my house and call evrybody.There was lt of police harassment.On 8th June i filed for divorce in Thane sessions court.After telling her that i had taken this step she just started to threaten us with dire consequences and finally on 1st july 2009 she did an FIR.I am out on AB and my next hearing is on 16th July 09.They have complained against evry member of my family.wht to do???The police is totally on there side as they are rich and powerfull.
M.Krishna - Armoor
Name: M.Krishna
Comments: Sir
we are very innocent .After marriage she stayed in our home for only 4 days and she stayed with me only 1 day at Hyderabad where i am working .And she left to her home and she forcing me to come to her home by taking the dowry which they had given at the time of marriage.I told I won't come and she put 498(a) on us.Sir please help us .
Comments: Sir
we are very innocent .After marriage she stayed in our home for only 4 days and she stayed with me only 1 day at Hyderabad where i am working .And she left to her home and she forcing me to come to her home by taking the dowry which they had given at the time of marriage.I told I won't come and she put 498(a) on us.Sir please help us .
Tuesday, July 07, 2009
aniz patel - jamshedpur
Name: aniz patel
Comments: she has filed a 498a just for making me in trouble, she has been guided by her parents. chargesheet has not yet come to the court, she is asking for maintaince, she has occupied my house, she is staying in my house & enjoying all the benifits, i am staying with my parents after coming from Jail. my house & my parents house is in a 5 mins walking distance.her parents are residing just in front of my house.
i want to get the case in fast track, can i? how will i get a Divorce? kindly let me know.
Comments: she has filed a 498a just for making me in trouble, she has been guided by her parents. chargesheet has not yet come to the court, she is asking for maintaince, she has occupied my house, she is staying in my house & enjoying all the benifits, i am staying with my parents after coming from Jail. my house & my parents house is in a 5 mins walking distance.her parents are residing just in front of my house.
i want to get the case in fast track, can i? how will i get a Divorce? kindly let me know.
Monday, July 06, 2009
sahil - mumbai
Name: sahil
Comments: I m from maharashtra and she from MP Itarasi, our marriage date 19Dec2008, She and her parents want to alone stay with her and they wanted to service her. on 24 may 09 she was gone with her parents itarsi and lodged false case 3/4 section 498 on me and my family member. my family is very poor condition, we are not able to fight coury cases, and they logded 3/4 case on my family member and me. the case will transferring 0 number to my town early in this next week. what can i do for bell? please and they blackmail me and my family for money? can i get bell from High Court? Please advice me early before me and my family will arrest. please HELP Me what can I Do GOD.
Comments: I m from maharashtra and she from MP Itarasi, our marriage date 19Dec2008, She and her parents want to alone stay with her and they wanted to service her. on 24 may 09 she was gone with her parents itarsi and lodged false case 3/4 section 498 on me and my family member. my family is very poor condition, we are not able to fight coury cases, and they logded 3/4 case on my family member and me. the case will transferring 0 number to my town early in this next week. what can i do for bell? please and they blackmail me and my family for money? can i get bell from High Court? Please advice me early before me and my family will arrest. please HELP Me what can I Do GOD.
Saturday, July 04, 2009
INDERJEET KAUR - chandigarh
Name: INDERJEET KAUR
Comments: all the query for my husband, i live in india and my husband live in canada, before marriage we live together morethan 3 year after that he goes to canada, he came back india dated 15/10/2007 and got registered marriage 19/10/2007 few day spent together and go back canada dated 31/10/2007, now he dont want to countinue our relationship and he told me i am not coming india in future if you
want i'll send you divorce paper, i m house lady,i have no any income of source, during these day i am facing money problem , i need monthly expenditure from my husband, what could i do, please guide me
Comments: all the query for my husband, i live in india and my husband live in canada, before marriage we live together morethan 3 year after that he goes to canada, he came back india dated 15/10/2007 and got registered marriage 19/10/2007 few day spent together and go back canada dated 31/10/2007, now he dont want to countinue our relationship and he told me i am not coming india in future if you
want i'll send you divorce paper, i m house lady,i have no any income of source, during these day i am facing money problem , i need monthly expenditure from my husband, what could i do, please guide me
SUMEET KUMAR - koderma /jharkhand
Name: SUMEET KUMAR
Comments: maine chekup k lia uske father ko bola to wo aaker mere ghar se le apne ghar le ker chale gaye .. ki wo chekup karaenge... mere father ki tabiyat kharab thi islia mai uska checkup nahe karwa saka.. maine jab pucha ki kis doctor ko dekhaya to usne kaha ki meri beti tik hai aap le jaaye jab maine mana kia to usne mujhe warrning dia ki main dowry k case ker k sabhi ko jail bhijwa dunga..fir maine 12-02-2008 ko S.D.O k yaha sanaha dakhil kia.. 18-03-2008 ko maine divorce suit file ker dia... unko notice milne k baad mujhe dhamki dia ki case uta lo nahe to dowry main sab ko ander kara denge ... dated 12-05-2008 wo mere ghar aaye jiski information maine likh ker s.p aur thana ko dia ... 13-05-2008 ko mere papa ki tabiyat kharab hone se hum log hydrabad chale gay.. dateted 1-8-2008 ko papa ki death ho gai... dateted : 16-5-2008 ko meri wifi ne mere aur family pe dowry case ker dia
Comments: maine chekup k lia uske father ko bola to wo aaker mere ghar se le apne ghar le ker chale gaye .. ki wo chekup karaenge... mere father ki tabiyat kharab thi islia mai uska checkup nahe karwa saka.. maine jab pucha ki kis doctor ko dekhaya to usne kaha ki meri beti tik hai aap le jaaye jab maine mana kia to usne mujhe warrning dia ki main dowry k case ker k sabhi ko jail bhijwa dunga..fir maine 12-02-2008 ko S.D.O k yaha sanaha dakhil kia.. 18-03-2008 ko maine divorce suit file ker dia... unko notice milne k baad mujhe dhamki dia ki case uta lo nahe to dowry main sab ko ander kara denge ... dated 12-05-2008 wo mere ghar aaye jiski information maine likh ker s.p aur thana ko dia ... 13-05-2008 ko mere papa ki tabiyat kharab hone se hum log hydrabad chale gay.. dateted 1-8-2008 ko papa ki death ho gai... dateted : 16-5-2008 ko meri wifi ne mere aur family pe dowry case ker dia
fir maine d.i.g hazaribagh ko 1 application dia
unho ne re - supervision karaya
abhi mere fili D.I.G. sahab k yaha pending hai 4 month se main kya karu samajh nahe aa raha .. police ki aur se dhamki di jaa rahe hai surrender karne ki nahe to korki ker denge .
mujhe jhoota case mai fasaya jaa raha hai
plszzz advice me
main bahut pareshsn hu
KANDARP T VAISHNAV - AHMEDABAD
Name: KANDARP T VAISHNAV
Comments: DEAR SIR/MADAM,
Comments: DEAR SIR/MADAM,
MY WIFE AND HIS PARENTS WHERE GIVING ME THREATS OF DOING 498A MANY TIMES AND ALSO ASKING FOR ELE MONEY TO BE PAID BY ME IF I DONT OBEY THEM 100%, WHEN I WAS NOT OBEYING THEM 100% THEN THEY STARTED TO APPART FROM OUR FAMILY OF THEIR OWN AND WENT AWAY TO HER FATHERS HOUSE AND THEN REFUSE TO COME BACK INSPITE OF I TOOK MANY MEASURES TO LET HER COME BACK TO MY HOUSE WITH MY CHILD A DAUGHTER. BUT SHE REFUSED TO COME ON THE GROUNDS OF CURETLY BUT IN REALTY SHE HAS DONE CURETLY ON ME, DONT TO HOME WORK ATALL NOR READY TO SHOW OFF HER WILLINGNESS TO WORK FOR FOOD BUYING OR PREPARING IT PROPERLY OR FEEDING THE MEMEBERS OF THE FAMILY WITH MAKING FOOD IN GOOD MODE OR NOT READY TO GO FOR SEX AS AND WHEN HER HUSBAND NEEDS IT WITHOUT ANY REASON, ONLY ONE REASON SHE WANTS TO SHOW THAT IF U WILL OBEY ME AND MY FAMILY AND DONT TELL ME TO OBEY ANYTHING OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY CUSTOMS THEN ONLY I WILL STAY WITH YOU OR ELSE I WILL APART FROM YOU AND U WILL FACE 498A OR ELLE MONEY TO PAY OR MAINTANENCE TO PAY HOWEVER AS MY FATHER IS LAYWER AND HE CAN FRAME A CASE IN WHICH U WILL COME UNDER CLUTCH TO PAY ALL THIS AND THEN U WILL UNDERSTAND THE SENARIO VERY WELL. THEN THEY DID CASE AFTER 1 YEAR AND THEY HAVE BLAMED IN CASE FOR DOWERY I HAVE ASKED FOR TO GET T.V FOR RS 12000 BUT I HAVE PROOF THAT THEY HAVE GIVEN SIGNATURE ON RETURNING 12000 RUPESS BY ME AS I HAVE PAID BACK TO THEM AND I HAVE NEVER ASKED FOR MONEY BUT MY FATHER IN LAW FORCE FULLY PAID ME IN MY BANK ACCOUNT THE MONEY WHILE SAYING THAT THAT MY DAUGTHER WILL NOT STAY AT YOUR HOME WITHOUT T.V AS SHE HAS A PRACTICE TO WATCH T.V DAILY AND SO I WILL PAY U MONEY AS U DONT HAVE NOW AND WHENEVER U GET MONEY U PAY ME BACK, FIRST I REFUSE BUT HE COMPLES ME TO RECEVE THE MONEY AND AS HE WAS LAWYER SO HE TRANSFERED MONEY IN TO MY BANK ACCOUNT WHERE I WAS INNOCENT AND WAS NOT KNOWING THAT HE IS CLUTCHING ME UP IN DOWERY CASE WHICH HE WANTS TO DO AFTERWARDS AND SO HE IS MAKING A PROOF OF THAT. BUT YET HE HAS NOT DID 498 A BUT HE PUT A CLAUSE IN A CASE OF DIVORCE THAT I HAVE ASKED FOR DOWERY WHICH I CAN PROVE IT WRONG WITH HIS SIGNATURE AND MY WIFE SIGNATUERE THAT I HAVE PAID BACK THAT T.V MONEY TO THEM IN INSTALLMENTS. OTHER THEY HAVE CLAIMED OF I WAS CURELY BEATING HER AND HARRESHING HER BUT I HAVE THE PROOF OF NEAR BY WHO STAYS NEAR BY MY HOUSE THE NEIBOURS THEY ARE SAYING THAT I AM INNOCENT AND I WAS LOVING HER AND KEEPING HER WITH ATMOST CARE AND GOODLY. THAT I HAVE PROOF WITH MY NEIBOURS ARE SAYING OF THEIR OWN. SO NOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT THIS CAN U TELL ME
Friday, July 03, 2009
Amitabh Srivastava - Delhi
Name: Amitabh Srivastava
Comments: Dear Sir,
Comments: Dear Sir,
Our's was a love marriage my parents were not agreed to this marriage and never participated. From the day one we lived seperately in a rented house. My inlaws kept on insisting me to persuade my parents and to live with them. My wife had a habbit of going to her parental house regularly for 5-6 days leaving me alone. I was working as a Sr. Executive in a private company and had a limited income although my parents have a 3 storied house and my father is a retd. section officer from delhi university.
My case is in CAW Cell my wife and inlaws framed the charges of 498A upon my Father, Mother and Unmarried younger sister which are all base less as they have never given any dowry as it was a love marriage and me and my wife never lived in my parental house.
My wife's brother beaten me with his friends, when I reached AIIMS to get the MLC done along with my wife, she falsely had her MLC done along with me to save her brother and reported the local police station next day that I have beaten her. When I reached to the local police station next morning they refused to take my application agaist her brother and they have also not taken any action on my MLC or my wife's MLC as both came normal but her lawyer father is making it a tool and producing it as a proof of cruelity.
Since then her father is bothering me and my parents and forcing them to take me and my wife to their home or otherwise he will file a FIR against the under 498 A. But my parents are not getting agree to it as all their charges are false and concocted. They are not feeling safe to bring her to their home and thinking that this could be a trap.
My wife filed a case under Domestic violence in march 2008 since then she is getting a maintenance of Rs. 4000 per month from me. but I have lost my job 3 months back as I was not able to concentrate on it properly due to the case hearings in court and hearings in CAW Cell and not able to pay the maintenance from past three months. Now my wife has already given a application to lodge an FIR under 498A in CAW cell. Her father is black - mailing me to pay 5 lacs or else they will send my parents behind the bars.
They are not producing any photographs or marriage CD which they have because any of my parents or relatives not participated in the marriage.
After marriage I came to know that my wife's elder sister also had a divorce and now recently married again. From her first marriage her father got a huge money in settlement.
Kindly advice me on above as I am very frustrated and tensed, don't know what to do next.
Ramakoteswara Rao - Andhra Pradesh
Name: Ramakoteswara Rao
Comments: I am Ram. I came to know about your website. I live in London. Recently I married to a girl from Andhra Pradesh. I have sponsored dependent visa to her. After getting married, she informed me that she was forced by her parents to marry me. After that I returned to UK and leading my life. But I would like to lead my life with her. But she is not coming to live with me and she would like to support their parents as they are very greedy about money. So, she would like to do the job and stay with them and whenever she would like to come to UK she would like to come here which is not feasible for me. I would like to make the family and she is not cooperating with me. When ever I called her and she is threatening me saying that I will file a criminal case against me and she is not telling that I don’t come and live with me. But instead she is saying, I will come, but she is denying telling the date of journey. If I ask many times, she is complaining every body that I am harassing her.She is threatening to file 498A. Kindly guide me what should I do now.
Comments: I am Ram. I came to know about your website. I live in London. Recently I married to a girl from Andhra Pradesh. I have sponsored dependent visa to her. After getting married, she informed me that she was forced by her parents to marry me. After that I returned to UK and leading my life. But I would like to lead my life with her. But she is not coming to live with me and she would like to support their parents as they are very greedy about money. So, she would like to do the job and stay with them and whenever she would like to come to UK she would like to come here which is not feasible for me. I would like to make the family and she is not cooperating with me. When ever I called her and she is threatening me saying that I will file a criminal case against me and she is not telling that I don’t come and live with me. But instead she is saying, I will come, but she is denying telling the date of journey. If I ask many times, she is complaining every body that I am harassing her.She is threatening to file 498A. Kindly guide me what should I do now.
Thursday, July 02, 2009
ashok rawat - mumbai
Name: ashok rawat
Comments: Hello,
My Wife has left my House since 4th March 2009 with her Father & Uncle. She is 7 Months Pregnant & is not allowing me to take care of her.She never accepts any thing from me.She is Staying with her Parents at her Village Baurari, Tehri Gharwal, Uttranchal.She Has made a Complaint against me in women Helpline at New Tehari,that i was Harassing her and was not providing her the Basic Needs,(Food Clothing & Shelter).
Comments: Hello,
My Wife has left my House since 4th March 2009 with her Father & Uncle. She is 7 Months Pregnant & is not allowing me to take care of her.She never accepts any thing from me.She is Staying with her Parents at her Village Baurari, Tehri Gharwal, Uttranchal.She Has made a Complaint against me in women Helpline at New Tehari,that i was Harassing her and was not providing her the Basic Needs,(Food Clothing & Shelter).
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